{"id":6760,"date":"2014-06-07T20:44:54","date_gmt":"2014-06-07T20:44:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/?p=6760"},"modified":"2014-06-07T21:33:56","modified_gmt":"2014-06-07T21:33:56","slug":"birthday-reflections-my-meaning-of-life-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/birthday-reflections-my-meaning-of-life-year\/","title":{"rendered":"Birthday reflections: My meaning of life year"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-6761\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Fortytwo-710x532.jpg\" alt=\"Forty-two\" width=\"710\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Fortytwo-710x532.jpg 710w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Fortytwo.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 710px) 100vw, 710px\" \/><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>The Answer to the Great Question&#8230; Of Life, the Universe and Everything&#8230; Is&#8230; Forty-two,&#8217; said Deep Thought, with infinite majesty and calm. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>~\u00a0Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker\u2019s Guide to the Galaxy<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>What would you change in your life if you knew you were to give an account for your past year? This question is on my mind as I prepare for another public yet personal birthday reflection blog post.<\/p>\n<h2>Reflect to direct, and learn from others<\/h2>\n<p>In Douglas Adam\u2019s The Hitchhiker\u2019s Guide to the Galaxy, the great computer Deep Thought gave \u201c42\u201d as the answer to life, the universe, and everything. Deep Thought then took another millennia to determine the actual question. As I enter my \u201cmeaning of life\u201d year, I find I am gaining clarity over the answers, even as I consider whether I am asking the right question.<\/p>\n<h2>A year of transition<\/h2>\n<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-5 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Gottfredson-theory-of-circumscription-and-compromise-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Gottfredson&#039;s theory of circumscription and compromise\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Gottfredson-theory-of-circumscription-and-compromise-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Gottfredson-theory-of-circumscription-and-compromise-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Gottfredson-theory-of-circumscription-and-compromise-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Super-career-cycle-game-board-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Super career cycle game board\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Super-career-cycle-game-board-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Super-career-cycle-game-board-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/Super-career-cycle-game-board-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Square peg. round hole\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole-710x710.jpg 710w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/square-peg-round-hole.jpg 1148w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>The big story of my past year was a career transition from <a title=\"The most important thing\u2026\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/09\/the-most-important-thing\/\" target=\"_blank\">a role as a manager in a digital studio<\/a> into <a title=\"Internal versus external consultants: Single team, common cause\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/internal-versus-external-consultants-single-team-common-cause\/\" target=\"_blank\">a management consultant position<\/a> focusing on change management, personal coaching, and team building. Some of my thoughts through the journey included:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The extent that <a title=\"Did you inherit your career? Gottfredson\u2019s theory of circumscription and compromise\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/06\/did-you-inherit-your-career-gottfredsons-theory-of-circumscription-and-compromise\/\" target=\"_blank\">we choose or inherit our career<\/a>;<\/li>\n<li>The <a title=\"Where are you in your career cycle? Super\u2019s career stages and Levinson\u2019s life development models\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/06\/where-are-you-in-your-career-cycle-supers-career-stages-and-levinsons-life-development-models\/\" target=\"_blank\">stages of our careers<\/a>;<\/li>\n<li>The <a title=\"Constructing your career: Tools from the career theory toolbox for work and life\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/constructing-your-career-tools-from-the-career-theory-toolbox\/\" target=\"_blank\">tools that contribute to more effective careers<\/a>; and<\/li>\n<li>How we know if we are <a title=\"Finding your organisational fit based on Holland\u2019s vocational personality type\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/finding-your-organisational-fit-based-on-hollands-vocational-personality-type\/\" target=\"_blank\">an organisational \u201cfit\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div id='gallery-2' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-6 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-personal-branding-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"recipe for personal branding\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-personal-branding-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-personal-branding-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-personal-branding-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-hosting-wp-01-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Recipe for Wordpress hosting\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-hosting-wp-01-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-hosting-wp-01-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/recipe-for-hosting-wp-01-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/recipe-for-baking-a-blog-post-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"recipe for baking a blog post\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/recipe-for-baking-a-blog-post-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/recipe-for-baking-a-blog-post-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/recipe-for-baking-a-blog-post-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Exploring what we mean by \u201ccareer\u201d also raised how much our identity can be defined by our career. I explored how we <a title=\"Sniffing your identity markers: Who do you say you are?\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/sniffing-your-identity-markers-who-do-you-say-you-are\/\" target=\"_blank\">create various \u201cidentity markers\u201d in our lives<\/a> and <a title=\"An online online personal brand recipe book\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/tag\/an-online-personal-brand-recipe-book\/\" target=\"_blank\">how we define those identities online through our \u201cpersonal brand\u201d<\/a>. To keep things in perspective, I also realised that the thoughts we have about ourselves <a title=\"Blog posts from 1932: Finding wisdom in Essays by Modern Masters\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/blog-posts-from-1932-finding-wisdom-in-essays-by-modern-masters\/\" target=\"_blank\">have not changed significantly over the past century<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div id='gallery-3' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/10389648_10151976269731910_7709198446872777009_n-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/10389648_10151976269731910_7709198446872777009_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/10389648_10151976269731910_7709198446872777009_n-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/10389648_10151976269731910_7709198446872777009_n-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/10389648_10151976269731910_7709198446872777009_n.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1525760_10151730692646910_687346947_n-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1525760_10151730692646910_687346947_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1525760_10151730692646910_687346947_n-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1525760_10151730692646910_687346947_n-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1525760_10151730692646910_687346947_n.jpg 417w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1381556_10151605314006910_738409325_n-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1381556_10151605314006910_738409325_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1381556_10151605314006910_738409325_n-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1381556_10151605314006910_738409325_n-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/1381556_10151605314006910_738409325_n.jpg 612w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>This past year also <a title=\"Reflecting on love and ice cream\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/07\/reflecting-on-love-and-ice-cream\/\" target=\"_blank\">marked 20 years of marriage<\/a> to a friend I continue to learn more about each year. We are both transitioning into parents of a university student. My daughter turned 19 and is now in her second year of Engineering, preparing to head to Singapore for a few weeks as part of a team to <a title=\"RobotX\" href=\"https:\/\/wiki.qut.edu.au\/display\/cyphy\/RobotX\" target=\"_blank\">compete in a race with their robot boat<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>Digital remnants<\/h2>\n<div id='gallery-4' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/climbing-the-ladder-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Climbing the ladder\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/climbing-the-ladder-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/climbing-the-ladder-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/climbing-the-ladder-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/SocialMediaTaxonomy2013-150x150.png\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Social Mediia Taxonomy 2013\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/SocialMediaTaxonomy2013-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/SocialMediaTaxonomy2013-60x60.png 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/SocialMediaTaxonomy2013-125x125.png 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Holden-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Holden\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Holden-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Holden-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Holden-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>I have also noticed myself relinquishing my previous digital focus based on no longer being immersed in the IT industry. Apart from my online personal branding conversations, my only digitally flavoured posts in the past 12 months related to <a title=\"The disruptive impact of the technology industry on careers: Framing the opportunity\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/06\/the-disruptive-impact-of-the-technology-industry-on-careers-framing-the-opportunity\/\" target=\"_blank\">the disruptive potential that technology presents for career development<\/a> and <a title=\"73 social media sites and 12 months of change: A social media taxonomy \u2013 update 2013\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/11\/73-social-media-sites-and-12-months-of-change-a-social-media-taxonomy-update-2013\/\" target=\"_blank\">my annual review of social media<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I expect to continue the annual social media review in October, although the scale has changed significantly from when I started four years ago. I suspect, however, that moving forward I will borrow on my digital experience similar to how I tap into my past careers in the environmental field and manufacturing. Case in point, <a title=\"Change lessons from the Holden closure\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/change-lessons-from-the-holden-closure\/\" target=\"_blank\">my comments last year concerning the Australian car manufacturing industry<\/a> following Holden\u2019s announcement to stop manufacturing in Australia.<\/p>\n<h2>Learning to do \u201cnew\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>A career transition presents an interesting paradigm. On the one hand, there can be a sense of having \u201carrived\u201d. On the other hand, any transition in life represents the start of a new journey and acts as a reminder that we need to continually let go of a need for a destination and treat each day as a new journey.<\/p>\n<p>I explored a few concepts in my journey&#8230;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Mindfulness<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div id='gallery-5' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/mindfulness_featured-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"mindfulness\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/mindfulness_featured-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/mindfulness_featured-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/mindfulness_featured-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/WaxOnWaxOff-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"WaxOnWaxOff\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/WaxOnWaxOff-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/WaxOnWaxOff-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/WaxOnWaxOff-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/WaxOnWaxOff-36x36.jpg 36w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/GuitarTune01-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Tune the guitar\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/GuitarTune01-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/GuitarTune01-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/GuitarTune01-125x125.jpg 125w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/GuitarTune01-36x36.jpg 36w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Attitudes, beliefs and thoughts can be difficult to change for a few reasons: <strong>1)<\/strong> they are not directly visible, <strong>2)<\/strong> they are habitual, <strong>3)<\/strong> they are often created to protect us as a defensive mechanism, and <strong>4)<\/strong> they can result in judgement or shame which can cause them to be buried even deeper. Mindfulness is a tool to bring awareness and stop judgement, allowing acceptance and action. As I settled into my new role, I found significant benefit in both <a title=\"Mindfulness defined: A resolution to consider\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/mindfulness-defined-a-resolution-to-consider\/\" target=\"_blank\">the principles and the practice of mindfulness<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Flow<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div id='gallery-6' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/the-model-of-happiness-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"the model of happiness\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/the-model-of-happiness-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/the-model-of-happiness-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/the-model-of-happiness-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/8-conditioons-of-flow-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"8 Conditions of Flow\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/8-conditioons-of-flow-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/8-conditioons-of-flow-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/8-conditioons-of-flow-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Flow-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Flow\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Flow-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Flow-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/Flow-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Flow is a powerful concept that helps explain our tension between anxiety and boredom based on challenges and our skill levels. As I increased my skills to handle my new challenges, I explored:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>how <a title=\"Controlling our happiness (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi and Flow)\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/08\/controlling-our-happiness-mihaly-csikszentmihalyi-and-flow\/\" target=\"_blank\">we can have control over our responses<\/a>,<\/li>\n<li>how <a title=\"Our happiness model explained, courtesy of Mikhail Csikszentmihaly\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/10\/our-happiness-model-explained-courtesy-of-mikhail-csikszentmihaly\/\" target=\"_blank\">our consciousness works to satisfies our needs<\/a>; and<\/li>\n<li>how <a title=\"How do you enjoy yourself? Learning the 8 conditions of Flow\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2013\/12\/how-do-you-enjoy-yourself-learning-the-8-conditions-of-flow\/\" target=\"_blank\">we can be intentional about achieving the conditions of flow<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Appreciative Inquiry<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div id='gallery-7' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/8-principles-of-appreciative-inquiry1-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"8 principles of appreciative inquiry\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/8-principles-of-appreciative-inquiry1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/8-principles-of-appreciative-inquiry1-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/8-principles-of-appreciative-inquiry1-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/change-your-frame-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"change your frame\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/change-your-frame-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/change-your-frame-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/change-your-frame-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Appreciative-Inquiry-5D-process-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Appreciative Inquiry 5D process\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Appreciative-Inquiry-5D-process-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Appreciative-Inquiry-5D-process-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/Appreciative-Inquiry-5D-process-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>There is a tendency in life to look for problems to solve. Appreciative Inquiry instead looks for the best that is and the best that can be. I apply the concept for myself and my clients using both:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a title=\"Changing the approach to change: Lessons from the eight principles of appreciative inquiry\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/changing-the-approach-to-change-lessons-from-the-eight-principles-of-appreciative-inquiry\/\" target=\"_blank\">eight principles of Appreciative Inquiry<\/a>; and<\/li>\n<li>The <a title=\"Change your frame of reference with the Appreciative Inquiry 5D process\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/change-your-frame-of-reference-with-the-appreciative-inquiry-5d-process\/\" target=\"_blank\">five-step process of Appreciative Inquiry<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong>Self-esteem<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div id='gallery-8' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/you-are-awesome-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"you are awesome\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/you-are-awesome-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/you-are-awesome-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/you-are-awesome-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon portrait'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/iceberg-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Behaviour iceberg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/iceberg-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/iceberg-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/02\/iceberg-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Self-esteem-model-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Self-esteem model\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Self-esteem-model-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Self-esteem-model-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/Self-esteem-model-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>I realised through my journey the dark side to goal setting, where identity and self-worth can be associated with performance and outcomes. This led me to research and apply:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The <a title=\"Icebergs and goal setting behaviour: Does achievement define your self-worth?\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/02\/icebergs-and-goal-setting-behaviour-does-achievement-define-your-self-worth\/\" target=\"_blank\">connection between achievement and self-worth<\/a>;<\/li>\n<li>The <a title=\"Want to boost your self-esteem? Find a mentor and be a mentor\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/04\/want-to-boost-your-self-esteem-find-a-mentor-and-be-a-mentor\/\" target=\"_blank\">theory behind self-esteem and the role of mentors and healthy goal setting<\/a>; and<\/li>\n<li>The <a title=\"How do you measure your self-esteem?\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/05\/how-do-you-measure-your-self-esteem\/\" target=\"_blank\">development of a model to help explain the path towards healthy self-esteem<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5;\">Gandhi and life as an experiment<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n<div id='gallery-9' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/GandhiExperiment-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Gandhi Experiment\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/GandhiExperiment-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/GandhiExperiment-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/GandhiExperiment-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/donkey-kong-jump-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Donkey Kong jump\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/donkey-kong-jump-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/donkey-kong-jump-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/donkey-kong-jump-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/2957757991_5866f9cb2c_b-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Find you inner experiment\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/2957757991_5866f9cb2c_b-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/2957757991_5866f9cb2c_b-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/2957757991_5866f9cb2c_b-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>I am where I am as a result of my professional and personal success and failures. The opportunity is to realistically view success and appropriately learn from and reconcile perceived failure. I found in Mahatma Gandhi\u2019s autobiography a powerful and useful metaphor of <a title=\"Three lessons from Gandhi\u2019s experiments in truth\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/05\/three-lessons-from-gandhis-experiments-in-truth\/\" target=\"_blank\">life as a series of experiments<\/a>. The principle can also apply in a modern narrative of life as a game made up of a series of learning opportunities, which I wrote about in <a title=\"Life as learning: Do it like Donkey Kong\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/life-as-learning-do-it-like-donkey-kong\/\" target=\"_blank\">my Donkey Kong retrospective<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Application: Values and speeding tickets<\/strong><\/h3>\n<div id='gallery-10' class='gallery galleryid-6760 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-thumbnail'><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/3-three-74-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Driving the car\" aria-describedby=\"gallery-10-6670\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/3-three-74-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/3-three-74-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/3-three-74-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<figcaption class='wp-caption-text gallery-caption' id='gallery-10-6670'>\n\t\t\t\tDriving the car for the morning&#8217;s warm-up exercise. I tell myself they are laughing with me, not at me&#8230;\n\t\t\t\t<\/figcaption><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Kohlbergs_Stages-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"Kohlberg&#039;s stages of moral development\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Kohlbergs_Stages-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Kohlbergs_Stages-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/Kohlbergs_Stages-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure><figure class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<div class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/4-four-97-150x150.jpg\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/4-four-97-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/4-four-97-60x60.jpg 60w, https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/4-four-97-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/div><\/figure>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>I had opportunities to\u00a0apply the concepts I learned in a couple of areas.\u00a0I had the honour of <a title=\"A Vital Projex facilitation experience and the value of values\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/04\/a-vital-projex-facilitation-experience-and-the-value-of-values\/\" target=\"_blank\">facilitating a train-the-trainer program for Vital Projex<\/a>, a not-for-profit that teaches values to at-risk youth and young leaders. I also was able to explore my own values in <a title=\"Speeding tickets and Kohlberg\u2019s model of ethical decision making\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/03\/speeding-tickets-and-kohlbergs-model-of-ethical-decision-making\/\" target=\"_blank\">my reflections of my driving behaviour against Kohlberg&#8217;s model of ethical decision-making<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>What\u2019s next: Discovering the question<\/h2>\n<p>I have found many answers over the past year, most of which are related to what you would consider to be \u201cthe meaning of life\u201d. As Douglas Adams infers, finding the answer often highlights what we don\u2019t know about the question. The more you invest in finding the answer, the harder it can be to admit you may not have the \u201cright\u201d question.<\/p>\n<p>The opportunity then is to let go of needing the answer and just letting life speak. I am naturally curious, even fascinated, about how we all work together and what it could look like to get the most out of life. I believe that in amongst the theology, philosophy and psychology of the world, there is a \u201cUnified Model of Everything\u201d. I believe there is an answer, and that the intent of our life is in discovering the question as it relates to our life.<\/p>\n<p>If I consider the twelve months ahead, I see three areas of focus. One is to continue to develop my craft in my role as a Management Consultant. A second area is integration of new tools such as the Enneagram personality framework, agile execution of strategy, and the Human Synergistics suite of tools \u2013 all of which I expect to share on this blog.<\/p>\n<p>The third area of focus is to identify with the feelings behind the Sideways Thoughts. I often question why as a species we invest so much in consumption when we cannot even seem to sort out the basics of living together on this planet. That is a question I can only ask of myself until I am able to look myself in the mirror and respond. Perhaps for the next year, that will be my question to my answer of \u201c42\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>I write to teach myself, to share with others, and receive feedback along the way. It is my hope that my journey and my Sideways Thoughts add some value and perspective to others participating in this great experiment of life. I also expect you will see in my writing many things I still need to learn.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for sharing the journey with me. Your comments and social shares provide encouragement and remind me of the much needed \u201csocial\u201d part of my ongoing social media experiment. I look forward to our next year together, sharing our collective Sideways Thoughts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Answer to the Great Question&#8230; Of Life, the Universe and Everything&#8230; Is&#8230; Forty-two,&#8217; said Deep Thought, with infinite majesty and calm. ~\u00a0Douglas Adams, The&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2014\/06\/birthday-reflections-my-meaning-of-life-year\/\" class=\"bwp-excerpt-more-link\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6761,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"yes","cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[20],"ecosystem_role":[],"class_list":["post-6760","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-about-me","tag-birthday","bwp-masonry-item","bwp-col-3"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6760","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6760"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6760\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6768,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6760\/revisions\/6768"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6761"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6760"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6760"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6760"},{"taxonomy":"ecosystem_role","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ecosystem_role?post=6760"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}