{"id":959,"date":"2011-06-06T16:13:32","date_gmt":"2011-06-06T21:13:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.renando.com\/blog\/?p=959"},"modified":"2013-01-06T07:22:05","modified_gmt":"2013-01-06T07:22:05","slug":"birthday-reflections-growth-balance-and-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/birthday-reflections-growth-balance-and-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Birthday reflections: Growth, balance and perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Year two of blogging and thirty-nine of living.\u00a0 Through floods and fast growth, I am finding it is all a matter of perspective.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-960\" title=\"Birthday 2011\" alt=\"Birthday 2011\" src=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/Birthday20111.jpg\" \/><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2>The year gone<\/h2>\n<p>The <a title=\"My Ipswich \/ Brisbane 2011 flood experience: Lose a house, gain perspective\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/01\/my-ipswich-and-brisbane-2011-flood-experience-lose-a-house-gain-perspective\/\" target=\"_blank\">Queensland flood<\/a> was the most distinctive event in the past 12 months, one that that resulted in our <a title=\"This is the house that Theresa re-built\u2026 well mostly\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flavoryellow.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/05\/18\/this-is-the-house-that-theresa-re-built-well-mostly\/\" target=\"_blank\">current rebuilding efforts<\/a>.\u00a0 We were very fortunate through the event to be able to stay in the basement of <a title=\"Kalie Gladwin on LinkedIn\" href=\"http:\/\/au.linkedin.com\/pub\/kalie-gladwin\/24\/747\/889\" target=\"_blank\">our friend\u2019s<\/a> place as Theresa <a title=\"\u201cAfter the floods\u201d \u2013 an update\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flavoryellow.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/03\/24\/after-the-floods-an-update\/\" target=\"_blank\">rebuilt the house<\/a> with the occasional assistance of volunteers. I do not take the label of flood victim, as we will come out stronger than before.<\/p>\n<p>The <a title=\"My Pizza Personality\" href=\"http:\/\/www.mypizzapersonality.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">My Pizza Personality project<\/a> which was so top of mind this time last year has now cooled into the land of congealed ideas.\u00a0 <a title=\"The value of the green referral (A My Pizza Personality case study)\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/11\/the-value-of-the-green-referral-a-my-pizza-personality-case-study\/\" target=\"_blank\">The research<\/a> is still ticking along and it is likely that the case study will be published in a book on marketing environmental sustainability.\u00a0 I have, however, stopped <a title=\"Do you want spam on your pizza personality? A Twitter case study\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/06\/do-you-want-spam-on-your-pizza-personality-a-twitter-case-study\/\" target=\"_blank\">stalking the Twitterverse<\/a> to solicit new participants.<\/p>\n<p>My studies have expanded my views on <a title=\"The reality of chaos theory \u2013 will you ignore, control or embrace?\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/07\/reality-of-chaos-theory-ignore-control-embrace\/\" target=\"_blank\">organisational complexity<\/a>, <a title=\"Organisational culture defined, courtesy of Edgar Schein\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/11\/organisational-culture-defined-courtesy-of-edgar-schein\/\" target=\"_blank\">culture<\/a>, <a title=\"The diagram for organisational success (and confusion, anxiety, gradual change, frustration, and false starts)\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/10\/the-diagram-for-organisational-success-and-confusion-anxiety-gradual-change-frustration-and-false-starts\/\" target=\"_blank\">effectiveness<\/a>, <a title=\"Leadership questions to remember: 10 qualities that mark a leader and help influence the leadership process\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/10\/leadership-questions-to-remember\/\" target=\"_blank\">leadership<\/a>, <a title=\"Self-regulation by reflecting on our looking-glass self: Symbolic interactionism defined\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/02\/self-regulation-by-reflecting-on-our-looking-glass-self-symbolic-interactionism-defined\/\" target=\"_blank\">self-regulation<\/a>, and <a title=\"The formula for a high performing (digital) team: Eight factors of team effectiveness\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/04\/the-formula-for-a-high-performing-digital-team-eight-factors-of-team-effectiveness\/\" target=\"_blank\">teams<\/a>.\u00a0 These concepts have helped my transition from Production Manager to General Manager in my company.\u00a0 My interest in digital resulted in occasional observations on <a title=\"Why we need more fart applications on the iPhone\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/09\/why-we-need-more-fart-applications-on-the-iphone\/\" target=\"_blank\">iPhone fart apps<\/a>, <a title=\"Measuring a meme: Did 32% of active Facebook users change their profile picture to a cartoon to stop child abuse?\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/12\/measuring-a-meme-facebook-users-change-profile-picture-cartoon-stop-child-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook memes<\/a>, <a title=\"Symbolic interactionism, social media, and the Australian 2011 floods: Stepping stones in a crisis, or watering down reality?\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/01\/symbolic-interactionism-social-media-and-the-australian-2011-floods-stepping-stones-in-a-crisis-or-watering-down-reality\/\" target=\"_blank\">social media in a crisis<\/a> and <a title=\"Social (media) loafing: Shared vision and the use or ban of social media at work\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/03\/social-media-loafing-shared-vision-and-the-use-or-ban-of-social-media-at-work\/\" target=\"_blank\">at work<\/a>, <a title=\"An avatar analysis: Choosing your profile picture\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/03\/an-avatar-analysis-choosing-your-profile-picture\/\" target=\"_blank\">profile pictures<\/a>, and <a title=\"Japan\u2019s earthquake and tsunami: On prayer, Twitter, and tweeted prayers\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2011\/03\/japan-earthquake-and-tsunami-on-prayer-twitter-and-tweeted-prayers\/\" target=\"_blank\">tweeted prayers<\/a>.\u00a0 While I find the digital landscape interesting and valuable for improving efficiency and effectiveness, managing a digital company ultimately comes down to the people.<\/p>\n<h2>The year ahead<\/h2>\n<p>This time <a title=\"Birthday reflections: Pizza personalities, digital studios, and middle management challenges\" href=\"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/index.php\/2010\/06\/birthday-reflections-pizza-personalities-digital-studios-and-middle-management-challenges\/\" target=\"_blank\">last year<\/a>, I faced the challenge of a Production Manager bridging the gap between executive strategic direction and operational necessities.\u00a0 I have now relinquished that title to one who I am confident will perform better than I as I move into a General Management role. My emphasis is now on serving the studio floor during continued rapid growth.<\/p>\n<p>The challenges of rapid growth to what will soon be 32 people has refined my focus to three areas of a sustainable structure, personalised performance management, and a more holistic approach to our product offering.\u00a0 When I have space to reflect, I get excited about the opportunities available.\u00a0 My company has a solid culture of passionate people working to achieve common interdependent goals.<\/p>\n<p>We serve each other to help individuals and teams realise their full potential.\u00a0 At the end of every project, the goal is that each person, both staff and client, should be a better person as a result of their participation.\u00a0 It is an idealistic utopian dream, but somebody has to get it right.\u00a0 It may as well be us.<\/p>\n<h2>Perspective<\/h2>\n<p>My other goal is to achieve this without burning myself out and fragmenting all I care about.\u00a0 At a minimum, this involves reducing 2:00am mornings, cold dinners, and weekend bleeds.\u00a0 My goal for this time next year is to reduce my hypochondria when reading about stress-related illness and refer to myself less frequently as a \u201cmiddle-age clich\u00e9\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>My word at the moment is perspective.\u00a0 Perspective is powerful, dictating whether a situation is a success or failure, whether a person is a friend or an enemy, and whether you will be happy or sad.\u00a0 In my career I have managed two people in the same role, with one grateful for the opportunity and the other angry over what they do not have.<\/p>\n<p>Gratitude goes hand in hand with perspective.\u00a0 Mentally placing yourself in a worse position than the one you are in puts your current position in perspective.\u00a0 Of course, the flip side of this approach is to always feel there could be something better, which results in resentment.<\/p>\n<p>I am finding a path between the two positions, of having a strong vision of what life can be and a gratitude for what it is.\u00a0 Somewhere in the middle lies a place of contentment, balanced areas of family, work, and personal activities.\u00a0 I am grateful for this blog as a means to articulate this journey, and I am grateful for you the reader in coming along for the ride.\u00a0 Thank you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Year two of blogging and thirty-nine of living.\u00a0 Through floods and fast growth, I am finding it is all a matter of perspective.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5481,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","cybocfi_hide_featured_image":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[20],"ecosystem_role":[],"class_list":["post-959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-about-me","tag-birthday","bwp-masonry-item","bwp-col-3"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=959"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/959\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5451,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/959\/revisions\/5451"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5481"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=959"},{"taxonomy":"ecosystem_role","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sidewaysthoughts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/ecosystem_role?post=959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}